:( Now my wife is not relating to me

So, my wife is not relating to me at the moment. And it hurts. I'm trying my hardest not to try and make it up to her in some way - as I always do that. It's been around 4 days now. She will speak to me if I speak to her, but otherwise says nothing. If I go out fishing, she doesn't ask how it went. Even if I go with someone else. She'll go to bed without saying anything. Get up without saying anything. Work in the garden without saying anything. Treating me as if I were the cleaner, but with less politeness.

I know why she's doing it too - because she feels hurt by me. Because I've not been able to relate to her. I'm on and off as I work through stuff. So she feels hurt, and now she's protecting herself by not relating to me.

And it screws up my insides.

:(